Tuesday, May 22, 2012

How far can we go for love

Hello friends,how are y'all doing?I believe good cuz,I am fabulous. It's been quite a busy week for me tryna get stuffs done and all,but I'm glad I'm still able to share an experience I had with a friend recently with you guys.Love is the most beautiful thing a person can have but,can turn to the worst nightmare a person can have also.The question is,how far can we go for love? I was chatting with my friend on BBM some days back and she told me amidst tears,how she just broke up with her baby. For the sake of this post,lemme name my friend Amina. Now,lemme give you guys the details of Amina's relationship. Amina met him some two years back and back then,he was a typical example of a "perfect man". He would take her out to the movies,showers her with gifts,love,affection,and he calls her like 10 times a day(not exaggerating or maybe a little*smiling*). He was what a gurl can call a "Mr right"(ladies if you know what I mean). But as time went by,he began to reveal the real him.the real player he was and then,it dawned on Amina that,all that "lovey-dovey" behaviour was just a charade. It got so worse that,gurls will call Amina to warn her to leave their man and one even claimed to be carrying his baby.and when she confronts him,he would deny ever cheating on her and picks up a fight with her. The sad part of this love story is that,Amina íڪ smitten and finds it impossible to quit the relationship. She actually broke up with him on the day we chatted but,went back to him cuz she said she can't just bear the thought of being away from him. Sincerly people,how much can a girl endure for love?

4 comments:

  1. Very sad.The truth is lovee doesn't have to bring pain,if it does then it's definitely not worth it.I won't advice any girl to stay in a relationship she doesn't enjoy.I can go a great length for love,but I'll never lose my happiness for it.

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  2. True talk. The reason most girls get stuck in an unhappy relationship i believe,is cuz, they are scared of change and think they can't get a better man. Thanks for ur comment.

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  3. Really a girl should know when to move on. Yes sometimes its really heartbreaking but its better than staying back and enduring rubbish!

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  4. My point exactly. They should know when to move on.

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