Saturday, December 29, 2012

It Is Time

Hello blogsville,hope we're all doing splendidly? The yuletide season has been a very fun-filled one for me so far and I know,it will remain so.. How's the celebration with y'all going?hope you guys are having fun?...

Lots of us me inclusive,are procrastinators and we often fail to realize that,time waits for no one. Those who have mismanaged their time and opportunities in the past,always end up living regrets-filled lives and wish to turn back the hands of time.. Many wasted their time,being in careers that didn't give them fulfillment when they could have chosen's never easy,trying against all odds to do what you really love but at the same time,it's not impossible... Some are trapped in relationships and friendships that doesn't add value to their lives simply because,they are scared of change,and have refused to use their time judiciously..

Guiness always say in their ad that;There is a drop of greatness in every man but,you can only see the greatness in you when you stop wasting your time on things,that will only bring regrets later and start seeing that inner gift you have,and develop,nurture and create a conducive environment for it to thrive..It is not just a matter of how well one spends it, that is, how
time wasted is minimized...the challenge lies in spending it judiciously, ensuring results that
are effective and fruitful.

Stop wasting your time on frivolity and start something meaningful..

It is time to live up to your full potential

It is time to be a better person..

It is time to let go of your past and focus on your future..

It is time to open your heart to love and let go of your hurt..let love heal its wounds..

It is time to challenge yourself and do the impossible..

Time is your best capital: spend it judiciously..

Sunday, December 23, 2012

The Thoughts Of A Bitter,Lonely Woman

Compliments of the season,I trust every one is as fabulous as I am..I was actually just chilling when my imaginations ran wild and gave birth to this poem. I'm not a professional poet infact,I'm not a poet like some people*they know themselves*lol but,I just decided to share my thoughts with you's not flawless and I hope you guys enjoy it.. So,I present to you my first work.. Happy reading.

In the stillness of the night
I sat with my thoughts
Thoughts about what the future holds in this cruel and cold world
My growing up was filled with so much hopes
But those hopes gave way to bitterness and rejection
I was the daughter of my mother
I was my father's daughter
I was loved
But death stole my most precious treasure
I am a woman
I am a bitter woman
A woman who had nothing to live for
But the most purest thing walked into my life
And I thought I had my miracle
My miracle,was my best friend
My confidant
But nature,was working against me
Now my miracle is gone
Gone with my hopes and my happiness
Now,I'm just a lonely woman
Sitting in this dark room
Alone with my thoughts
And the frogs in the mud just outside my house,are the only thing alive in my world

Monday, December 10, 2012

Loungin' by Mc Dowell's Review

The yuletide month was kickstarted with a blast in a fine city.On the 2nd of December,the beautiful city of Port Harcourt stood still for LOUNGING,an event organized by BUC'GREEN CONCEPT and sponsored by McDowell's and Lesukka Event Centre and Bar,which was also the venue of the event.

The event was a beautiful fusion of fashion,music,comedy and the introduction of a whiskey brand into the city of Port Harcourt by McDowell's.It centred on the showcasing of a few Nigerian talents in the fashion sphere and highlighted the likes of Ejiro Amos Tafiri from lagos,who was the major designer of the night and also Cecee Seed form lagos,then finally Snazzy fashion from Enugu.These young talents wowed the crowd with their beautiful designs and of course,beautiful models.However,i used my Blackberry to take pictures so the quality of the pictures might not be very good.Plus,i'm not a photographer so please make do with what i am able to offer.

Ejiro Amos Tafiri

Ejiro Amos Tafiri,a native of Delta state but based in lagos,was the major star of the day with very beatiful and original designs that got me drooling.She was supposed to be a medical student but on a visit to a designer's,she got inspired to pursue a career in fashion.Though her parents weren't pleased with the decision,she went ahead to become one of Nigeria's young fashion talents.Below are some of her designs,she's into female clothing.


Cecee Seed
This 18 year old revealed that she gets her inspiration from watching fashion shows.She's also based in lagos and is doing well at this point of her career.Here are some of her designs;


Snazzy Fashion
Snazzy is a young fashion designer from Enugu,he's basically into male clothing and wants to put a smile on the faces of the people of Port Harcourt.Here are some of his designs;


 Music interjected in various points of the events and the renditions were from the likes of Kome,an act that got me fixed for the entire duration of his song 'Wayo'.The guy's talented and his vocals would almost get R.Kelly jealous.McDowell whiskey was served to those with the head for it.The event ended at about 10:30pm with the closing remark giving by Sylvanus.

Generally,i'd say they put up a good show.The setting was good,the lighting was nice.The co-ordination was a little challeged.So,i'd say there's always room for improvement.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Why Do We Worry

Do you ever worry? What are your worries?
The economy? Terrorism? Your health? Your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend? Kids? Your job? Your spiritual life? Your career? Your grades? Your past? Your future? Your family? Your financies? Your weaknesses? Your death?......and the list goes on and on and on...doesn't it?

I remember there was a song or jingle by John W. Peterson I use to sing,when I was much younger and the lyrics,made a lot of sense:

Why worry,when you can pray?
Trust Jesus,He'll be your stay.
Don't be a doubting Thomas,
Rest fully on His promise,
Why worry,worry,worry,when you can pray?

It's a cute and reassuring tune but,I still worry. Worry as I've come to understand,is a total waste of time and it doesn't change anything rather,it takes from you. All it does is,steal your joy and keeps you very busy,doing nothing..... Honestly,at times prayer feels pretty lame because,when we are deep in our worries,we feeel God has abandoned us or even hates us,or not interested at all in helping us and our situations. But the truth remains that,He is God and there is a reason He is withholding that job,contract,or that major breakthrough from us because,He will never give us anything He knows we ain't ready for.

The funny thing about God and our needs is that,He knows already what we need,and expects us to just ask and be patient while He works the process out.................. Always remember that,PATIENCE and TRUST is a virtue anyone who is expectant,must have.

Remain beautiful,beautiful people..
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Friday, November 23, 2012

Young,Alive and Thankful

Hello blogsville,hope y'all are doing awesomely well? As for me,I'm as beautiful as ever*smiles*.

A lot has happened to me lately that has made me to be more appreciative of the things and the people in my has also made me to not take for granted,God's love and grace. I have always been appreciative but i guess,I have not been thankful enough. I still whine when things aren't exactly how i want them to be...I still worry my pretty head about things I have no control over instead of thanking Him for things I have...I still feel sad instead of counting every affliction all joy believing,He will never leave me nor forsake me till the end of now, i'm appreciating life,good health,love,family and friends more.

October 28th was my birthday and as the text messages,twitter messages,facebook messages kept on coming in from friends and loved ones,I couldn't help but think about how someone,somewhere didn't have the luxury of remembering their own birthdays let alone receive prayers from the people that mattered most in their lonely someone was somewhere,on their special someone just breathe their last someone was in excrutiating pains and begging God to take their lives so they could be free from the suffering...... When I thought about all these and none of it was my case,I felt so Young,Alive and Thankful.

At some point in our lives,we make a list of the things we hope to achieve at a particular age and when we don't get them,some people tend to either question God,or think of themselves as failures but in our bitter and insensitive state,we fail to realize there are people that just turned that age and have not achieved half of the things we have and are taking for granted.... Thanking God for the things He has done and for the ones He is yet to do,will make Him do more.

Y'all should have a blessed weekend and remember,to remain beautiful and always be thankful..

Sunday, November 4, 2012


Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley

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Tuesday, October 23, 2012

You Are Stronger Than You Think

Hi lovely people,hope you y'all are as beautiful and as handsome as ever? I'm fabulous as usual..

How strong are you? That is a tough question to answer right?whether you are a man or a woman,young or old. But,really,I want to do you define your strength? How do you know your limits? How do you know just how much you've got? When we are faced with difficulties,we often discover that we are much stronger than we think but,we shouldn't only discover our strengths when we are down.

Most people underestimate their strengths . As you go through your day,challenge your capacity. Test your limits,push yourself to find your true boundaries and define your strength. When you discover how much you've really got,you may surprise even yourself.

Have a fulfilled week ahead.

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Monday, October 8, 2012

My first award

Hey people,i just won my first award,yay!!!*doing the azonto* Sugarspring and Relentless Builder are such darlings for giving me the Versatile Blog Awards.Thanks a lot girls.*hugs*

The rules of the award are;

  • Thank the blogger that nominated me
  • Share 7 Random facts about myself
  • Nominate 15 bloggers who are relatively new to blogging
  • Let the nominated bloggers know they have been nominated
    I already thank the blogger that gave me the award.
    7 Random Facts About Me
    1.I don't like talkatives.I really get tired listening to people that talk too much.
    2.I'm scared of dogs.
    3.I love movies.
    4.I don't like quiet places.
    5.I get scared of little things that can't even get little kids scared.(Spiders,Cockroaches,Milipedes,Centipedes etc).
    6.My greatest fears are losing someone i love so much (not to death o,lol) and where i'll spend eternity.
    7.I love God so much.
    Lastly,i was supposed to nominate 15 bloggers for this award but I am aware that lots of bloggers already have this award.So feel free to grab it if you haven't please.Have a nice week ahead!


    Friday, September 28, 2012

    A Psalm Of Life

    Tell me not in mournful numbers,
    Life is but an empty dream!
    For the soul is dead that slumbers,
    And things are not what they seem.
    Life is real! Life is earnest!
    And the grave is not its goal;
    Dust thou are, to dust thou returnest,
    Was not spoken of the soul.
    Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,
    Is our destined end or way;
    But to act, that each tomorrow
    Find us farther than today.
    Art is long, and Time is fleeting,
    And our hearts, though stout and brave,
    Still, like muffled drums, are beating
    Funeral marches to the grave.
    In the world's broad field of battle,
    In the bivouac of Life,
    Be not like dumb, driven cattle!
    Be a hero in the strife!
    Trust no Future, howe'er pleasant!
    Let the dead Past bury its dead!
    Act, - act in the living Present!
    Heart within, and God o'erhead!
    Lives of great men all remind us
    We can make our lives sublime,
    And, departing, leave behind us
    Footprints on the sand of time;
    Footprints, that perhaps another,
    Sailing o'er life's solenm main,
    A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
    Seeing, shall take heart again.
    Let us then be up and doing,
    With a heart for any fate;
    Still achieving, still pursuing,
    Learn to labor and to wait.

    Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

    Sunday, September 16, 2012

    Doing Things Differently

    Hi blogsville,hope y'all are doing great?

    So this post is about doing things differently,something many of us find extremely difficult to doing this,some people think it only increases their chances of failure but,it truly does much better things for you. By doing things differently,you can see life from a different perspective..

    I have always been fascinated by people who are consistently successful at what they do;especially those who experience repeated success in many areas of their life throughout their lifetime. We all have our own examples of super successful people who we admire..but how do they do it? Over the years,we have studied the lives of numerous successful people,read their books,researched them online and I'm sure we know most of them,were not born into success;they simply did,and continue to do,things differently...there are many ways we can be distinct from the crowd e.g, (1)taking decisive and immediate actions....(2)discovering your potentials and working towards achieving your set goals.. There are people who had ventured into businesses just because everyone was doing it and when they didn't succeed,they blamed others or even the devil for their failures whereas,they ought to know better..

    Though our society really does not allow one to be different cuz,there will always be critics when they see you ain't doing the normal business everyone is doing, or when you share your dreams with them,be sure they will discourage you but in spite of these,.we need to stand our ground and dare to be different in order to carve a niche for ourselves through hardwork and doing what we love doing and God,will definitely make us successful...

    Like they say,taking the path less travelled can actually enrich our lives and the hardest thing about the road not taken is that,you never know where it might have led... At the end of the day,life is about choices: it's not hard to decide what we want our lives to be about. What is hard,is figuring out what we're willing to give up in order,to do the things we really care about. We can choose to focus on what we are not passionate about and remain slaves to those who have discovered theirs or we can choose to focus on our passions and dreams and work towards achieving them.. The latter is a far better and happier path.

    Stay blessed and remain beautiful.

    Friday, September 7, 2012

    The Bridesmaid

    Hey friends,I have been very lazy lately and so,I've been having difficulties in getting a lot of things done e.g updating my blog but,I have promised myself I'm gonna change because,being lazy isn't good for my complexion*grin*... I trust y'all have been very awesome cuz,I'm fabulous..

    Last two weeks,my elder sister got married and I was very excited when she called to inform me that,I was gonna be her bridesmaid. Truth be told,I have never been one before so,I didn't know it's kinda stressful and I had no idea what to do because,the me I saw behind my sister that day,sucked big time..the saturday of the wedding was an environmental sanitation day so we had plenty of time on our hands to take care of our business before we went to the church. When we were all dressed up and the make-up artiste and the hair stylists have done their jobs,my sis called me and handed the things I'm gonna use on her and also gave me gloves to wear..,I was like,do maid-of-honours wear gloves?she just looked at me and said yes..within me,I was just thinking how uncomfortable I would be cuz,the last time I wore gloves was in secondary school during inter-house sports and on children's day*lol* but,I was still glad that the gloves were open..before we left for
    the church,the ladies around knowing I'm a novice asked me to pin her veil and arrange her trail which I just told them I couldn't do and they all just kept laughing at me and calling me,"original bridesmaid"..

    When we arrived at the church,it was another drama altogether cuz,I was having difficulties arranging her veil and the trail of her dress and at a time,the best man was telling me what to do*can you imagine?*..I just kept praying all the time for the pastor to wed them and let's move to the reception cuz,I was becoming very uncomfortable... Finally, we left the church and headed to the reception venue and I was kinda relieved cuz,the veil and the trail wasn't there anymore so,it was just me,the handfan and handkerchief. It happened that,where was arranged for us to sit had no fan that was close so,I had to do the fanning all the way..I just kept on fanning and dabbing her face and neck with the handkerchief till my hand began to shake from tiredness.

    Just as I was praying for a miracle,the M.C called them out to dance and the spraying and presentation of gifts started..I just shouted halleluyah that,it's all overrrrrr.....I know any of my friends I pick to be my bridesmaid will maybe have a tougher or sweeter tale to tell.*lol*....... Y'all should have a great and fun-filled weekend.

    Tuesday, September 4, 2012

    My Knight In Shining Armour

    Hello beautiful people,it's been so so long since i made a post here and I'm excited that this post is about the most wonderful man in the whole universe,*my fiance*..*smiles* saying that word bring so much smiles to my face.. Anyways,let me tell you guys how I met him..

    His name is Mr Ekpedekumo Ebikabowei Derek. I met him about a year and five months ago in a place most people think is full of losers*2go*..we met when i was mending my broken heart and we just clicked..there was this great chemistry between us that made me know i needed to be with him..then,when he isn't online I pray silently for him to come on.*yah i have opened my yansh*.. We continued chatting and getting to know each other until,we decided to hook up..we hooked up first in my church and after the service,he took me home to cook me his jollof rice that he always boasted to me about during our chats*lol*..I'm guessing the rice did some things to me because ever since,I have never stopped loving him*lol*..

    As time passed,I loved him more each day because,he is the man of my dreams.. He is sweet,handsome,loving,crazy,romantic,understanding,God fearing,great sense of humour and he is my best friend..It hasn't been all rosy but,we pulled through..I believe in fairytales and this is my fairytale... On friday 31st August,my knight in shining armour asked me to be his wife and i said YES.. So I'm engaged to the most awesome man in the whole universe,a man i love sooooooooo much........

    Wednesday, June 27, 2012

    Live an Exemplary Life

    Greetings to blogvillers. It feels like a decade ago since i made a post but,I'm glad I'm able to make this one. Hope y'all have been fabulous? I've been great and i missed you guys.

    I was thinking this morning about,how people just choose their role models by only looking at one aspect of the person's life which is usually their success stories and achievements in life thereby,forgetting the most important aspect of their lives like;morals,honesty,being trust-worthy,beliefs e.t.c. A role model to me, is a person whose behaviour,example or success is, or can be emulated by others,especially by younger people. A person who is honest,trusting and most of all open-minded. We live in a society that really doesn't allow one to be different but a role model,DARES you and themselves to be different. Your role model is a reflection of who you are so,whoever you tell people your role model is,that's who they see you as... No one can be said to be perfect because,we live in an imperfect world and we all are striving towards perfection but in our strife,we should be able to affect lives positively and make people,look up to us. Let us be able
    to make people happily and readily follow the foot prints,we have left behind...for every wrong we do,we have disappointed that person that secretly sees us as their role models. Who does your colleagues,neighbors,friends,young ones,siblings and even your parents see you as?

    The true mark of the superior person(role model) is that he sets high standards for himself and refuses to compromise those standards for any reason whatsoever. Some, have so negleted the need to live lives worthy of emulation and many have failed to see themselves as role models that others could look up to thereby,setting wrong examples for young ones to follow...
    .the superior person
    behaves at all times as if everyone is watching,even when no one is actually is. Upholding high standards for your life,will go a long way in helping you and someone out there that looks up to. Y'all should have a blessed week.

    Tuesday, June 12, 2012

    The last time i checked,God did not fail.

    Hey beautiful people,it's been a while and hope y'all are great? I'm fabulous. This past weekend was a very busy one for me but,thank God everything went as anticipated for. What I'm about to share with you guys is a true life experience and it happened to my friend. Sometimes in life when we are faced with a life threatening problem,some of us forget that,we have a father in heaven that can turn our situations around if only,we believe in Him. I'm just gonna give it to you exactly how she shared it with me undiluted so,just sit back and relax and if possible,grab a bottle of coke while you roll with me but please,pardon the poor writing skills. Leggoooooo

    On tuesday morning,I woke up as usual,strong and healthy and after a few minutes,I felt a sharp pain on my right lower abdomen. I thought it was jes a normal pain so I continued gisting with my siblings,after sometime I felt the pain again but this time,it was excrutiating. The pains continued and at night,I couldn't sleep..there was pains everywhere,my lower back and abdominal region. I prayed silently to God to take this excrutiating pain away from me and after some minutes,I slept off. My sister adviced I go for scanning and after waking up in the morning without pains,I decided not to go for the scan but,she insisted so i went. After the scan,I was told I had 3cm fibroid..i was so much in shock and couldn't jes believe what I jes heard.the lab guy told me i have to start making babies fast. Tears filled my eyes and as I got home and showed the report to my sister,she got her bible and notepad from sunday service and read from it.
    We had a communion(cabin biscuit and coke) as our head pastor told us whenever we are afflicted,we should do it. In the evening,I followed my sister to prayer meeting and after the service,we met with Pastor Chuks at the church office in choba uniport district. I told Pastor Chuks everything and also gave him the report and He asked us all to fast for 3 days with scriptures to read. That night,I still couldn't sleep cuz of the pains,my whole body was on fire and as I laid there on my bed,I prayed still to God to give me sleep.. On thursday,I forced myself to attend foundation class(for the first time) to meet with the head pastor for uniport branch,Pastor Jesam...after the class,he prayed for me and a new confidence was put in me. Whenever I felt the pains,i use the scriptures to send it away.

    Saturday came,and Pastor Chuks visited us and we all prayed and the anointing of God came upon me then,i was relieved. That same night,the devil struck me again with the pains and I started speaking in tongues until I could sleep again. It took the strength of God upon me to get ready for sunday service because this time around,it was difficult for me to stand straight. Now we got into the church not knowing that,God had something great in store for me..during the praise session,I felt like sitting cuz I was tired from the long trek to where we could get a cab but,I had to force myself to stand believing God for strength..tears that I couldn't control almost blinded me and little did I know that God had already started his healing process in me cuz,at the end of the worship,me that couldn't sit without support could sit straight without leaning on anything for support. After the ministration from the choir,the head pastor for ph branch of Dominion City
    Church,Pastor Mike Onyali stood at the alter and as usual,started another round of worship cuz according to him,he has to connect with God and the Holy Spirit.

    During this worship,I wept uncontrollably and the first words Pastor Mike said were"there is a young lady the Holy Spirit said that the diagnosis of fibroid has been cleared and also said the abdominal pain has been healed too". I jumped and knelt God remembered and healed me..He settled my case in heaven.

    I hope you guys learnt from this mind blowing testimony? In everyting that has given you sleepless nights,just take a leap of faith and believe in His awesome power.

    Monday, May 28, 2012

    You are ACCOUNTABLE for the choices you make.

    Hello friends,how have y'all and your weekend been? Hope you guys did a lot of fun things? Mine was great and quite very eventful. Attended a wedding briefly,went for wedding shopping* not mine lol* and did things generally. Back to the talk of the day.
    Often times,people tend to do some unethical and absurdly things and afterwards,blame it on circumstances beyond their control, made them take that decision. Truth be told,there are some very nasty challenges that life throws at us that could threaten our very existence but,what we do at those trying periods of our lives,goes along way in defining who we are. We live in a judgmental world and we are being judged everyday of our lives. We are judged by the way we dress,by our facial expressions,by the way we talk,and also by our actions. Nobody wants to know why you took that decision;they don't wanna know how long you have been crying out for help,but all they do know is that,you took that decision and you are judged by it whether good or bad. I was chatting recently with some girls in a group and they all went on to talk about how cruel and heartless some guys are, and some said they were tired of dating and all. But one of the girls made one very
    annoying statement that got me really pissed.*well speaking for myself,it got me pissed but might really not annoy someone else*. Her words" I don't blame girls that go into prostitution and lesbianism because,some of them have really suffered in the hands of men". I was like, WTF is this girl saying? How could someone be so shallow minded to even think like that? I could have said more but,I simply disagreed totally with her by saying,going into lesbianism,prostitution,considering or committing suicide because of what a man/men did to you or because of the challenges life served you,is sheer cowardice. I am not disputing the fact that,just as our faces,minds and capabilities are different,so is the way we handle issues but,should we allow life's challenges make us do the wrong things or make us take the wrong decisions? If you go on to ask an armed robber,why he/she is doing what they're doing,they sure will blame it on poverty. Same goes to a hooker.
    But there are also some people faced with same problems that are making an honest living. Should we allow challenges becloud our reasoning?hell no. The sooner people come to the realization that,they are accountable for their choices,the better for us all...

    Saturday, May 26, 2012

    11 things,11 Questions.

    I was tagged by Oddnaijachic.Ok,she didn't actually tag me per se,but she inferred that anyone can tag himself/herself,and cos I like the idea,I decided to tag myself.So,here are the rules;

    *Tell 11 things about about yourself.

    *Answer the 11 questions of the person who tagged you.

    *Create your own 11 questions.

    *Tag 11 people and inform them.

    *inform the person who tagged you when you answer the questions.

    11 things about me

    1. I am very patient

    2. I have an unwavering faith

    3. I can't do without movies and music

    4. Give me apples anytime,any day, and you are my friend.

    5. I HATE beans and anything made with it.

    6. I am a scorpio.

    7. I have phobias-scoleciphobia and myriopodophobia.

    8. I don't follow trends. I go with what fits me.

    9. I don't like extremely quiet places.

    10.I am reserved and sometimes people mistake it for quietness.

    11.I am very soft-hearted. Little things can make me cry.

    Answers to Oddnaijachic's questions
    1. If you had to name the one thing that frightens you most about growing old,what would it be? Nothing

    2. 500 years from now,only one book which exists today will still be available. Which book should it be? The bible.

    3. Name something you do when you are alone that you wouldn't do in front of others. I can't fart in front of others.*lol*

    4. What is the most annoying thing that someone could do to you? Taking me for

    5. If you had only 24hours to live,what would you do? Hmmmm that's a toughie but,I'll try and make peace with whomever I've offended and also forgive those that have offended me and pray to God,to accept my soul till the last minute.

    6. If you could have one super power,what would you want and why? I would want my fantasies to become a reallity cuz,i would wanna see how beautiful my life will be.

    7. If a movie where made about your life,what would the theme song be? It's definitely gonna be "strength of a woman" I really love that song.

    8. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? A friend accused me falsely and i was really really furious but,I don't feel same way again.

    9. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give and why would it be hard to lose? That would be my loved one and cuz it's hard to lose a part of you.

    10. What do u do when you are bored? See a movie or listen to music.

    11. What is the best compliment you have ever received?

    My 11 questions

    1. What is your life's greatest fear?

    2. What has life taught you?

    3. Have you given up on anyone or anything? What? Who?

    4. What was that thing you did that made someone call you a WICKED PERSON?

    5. What do you fantasize about?

    6. If you could turn back the hands of time,what will you want to have back?

    7. If you had a ticket to travel to any where in the world,where will it be?

    8. Have you ended a relationship before? How?

    9. What do people say you do well?

    10. What would you wish for,if you had the power to make your wish come true?

    11. What was the poorest position you took back in secondary school?

    p.s. You all are tagged and should feel free to answer these questions cuz i want to know your answers.

    Friday, May 25, 2012

    The world we live in...

    Hey people,hope y'all are great? I'm awesome as usual and I'm kicking real hard*smiles*. I really miss those days when I was little,and life was less complicated and bitter. Where people were still happy,with the little they had. Where greed and corruption hasn't eaten too deep into our system. Where men married women. Where God was feared. Where people walked freely about and not worry about being kidnapped. Where children were still innocent and revered their parents. Where husbands and wives,adored each other. Where you can buy so much,with little money. Where neighbours,trusted each other. Each time i reminisce about "The good old days",it saddens my heart. No one knows anymore,where we are going. Everything;from our leaders, to us as individuals,has gone haywire and we only need the grace of God,to survive in this hell we call earth. I could go on and on, talking about the world we live in and won't even come close to covering every area of our
    sufferings,as humans but below,are other things we suffer.

    * We live in a world where the love of money supercedes the love we have for our neighbours and fellow country men.

    * We live in a world where some religious leaders and powerful politicians,encourage and support homosexuality.

    * We live in a world where terrorism is the order of the day.

    * We live in a world where dangerous diseases claim the lives of our loved ones.

    * We live in a world where morals means nothing to us anymore.

    * We live in a world where corruption and greed is normal.

    * We live in a world where doing the right thing is regarded with extreme repugnance.

    * We live in a world where we lack altruism.

    We live in a word....infact lemme stop here cuz i dey vex*lol*.

    Thursday, May 24, 2012

    Discovering your potentials

    I have discovered that,there are some questions in our lives that are very thought-provoking and most times,can make us moody when we sit and ponder on them. Some of such questions are:
    *What I'm i passionate about?
    *What can i do well? and so many more. I have read in the bible and heard from most religious leaders quoting the scripture which says;"A man's gift maketh room for him,and bringeth him before great men"(Proverbs 18:16). *Choi,i sabi bible small oo*.You'all will agree with me that,75% of humans on earth today,do not know what their true calling,talents or gifts are hence,they don't do very well or attain the heights they ought to get to in life. Discovering your potentials can make you get to your desired heights in life because,when you discover your gifts,nurture and maximize them,you will be the most fulfilled and celebrated man/woman on this planet. Below,are some carefully and well structured questions you need to ask yourself,on your way to self discovering.
    1. What is your heart's deepest desire?

    2. What stirs your passion?

    3. What do you enjoy doing so much that,you forget to eat?

    4. What naturally flows out of you? Whatever you were designed to do will feel right and natural when you do it.

    5. What do people say you do well?

    6. Where do you produce good results?

    7. What ideas,visions or dreams are impossible to get out of your mind?

    8. To what can you give 100% of your life? If you knew you wouldn't fail and you had all the power you will ever need,what would you do?


    1. Diligence

    2. Law of use and disuse

    3. Association

    4. Get information

    5. Get a mentor

    6. Humility

    N.B please friends,do not forget to answer these questions.

    Wednesday, May 23, 2012

    10 inspirational quotes

    Hello beautiful people,hope y'all are well and doing great? As for me,I'm awesome. I was doing some little research on the net this morning,and I stumbled upon some inspirational quotes by very great people and immediately,y'all came to my mind and decided,it will be wise to share this with my dear friends. I hope this helps and open your eyes and minds to some facts we need to know about living.

    1.The secret of success is consistency of purpose. Benjamin Disraeli.

    2.Yes,risk taking is inherently failure-prone. Otherwise,it would be called sure-thing-taking-Tim McMahon.

    3.Do not go where the path may lead,go instead where there is no path and leave a trail-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

    4.People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances-The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want,and,if they can't find them,make them-George Bernard Shaw.

    5.Knowing is not enough;we must apply. Willing is not enough;we must do-Goethe.

    6.What we do today,right now,will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows-Alexandra Stoddard.

    7.Behold the turtle. He only makes progress when he sticks his neck out-James Bryant Conant.

    8.Trying will do anything in this world-Theocritus.

    9.Never let the fear of striking out get in your way-George Herman("Babe")Ruth.

    10.Pursue worthy aims-Solon.

    Tuesday, May 22, 2012

    How far can we go for love

    Hello friends,how are y'all doing?I believe good cuz,I am fabulous. It's been quite a busy week for me tryna get stuffs done and all,but I'm glad I'm still able to share an experience I had with a friend recently with you guys.Love is the most beautiful thing a person can have but,can turn to the worst nightmare a person can have also.The question is,how far can we go for love? I was chatting with my friend on BBM some days back and she told me amidst tears,how she just broke up with her baby. For the sake of this post,lemme name my friend Amina. Now,lemme give you guys the details of Amina's relationship. Amina met him some two years back and back then,he was a typical example of a "perfect man". He would take her out to the movies,showers her with gifts,love,affection,and he calls her like 10 times a day(not exaggerating or maybe a little*smiling*). He was what a gurl can call a "Mr right"(ladies if you know what I mean). But as time went by,he began to reveal the real him.the real player he was and then,it dawned on Amina that,all that "lovey-dovey" behaviour was just a charade. It got so worse that,gurls will call Amina to warn her to leave their man and one even claimed to be carrying his baby.and when she confronts him,he would deny ever cheating on her and picks up a fight with her. The sad part of this love story is that,Amina íڪ smitten and finds it impossible to quit the relationship. She actually broke up with him on the day we chatted but,went back to him cuz she said she can't just bear the thought of being away from him. Sincerly people,how much can a girl endure for love?

    Newest blogger

    Having a blog where you can share your experiences,thoughts and things that are happening around you,is imperative hence,i decided to launch myself into blogville.I know i ought to have been here before now but,I still can't remember what kept me out for so long. But all the same,the good thing is,I am here,and I'm here for good.*wink*